have a teen sim who "had" a girlfriend. now she has aged up to young adult and he is still a teen. it still shows them as "romantic intrest" but there are no longer any "romantic" options when you click on them. was just wondering if there were any mods to alow this. Christ, this is just as bad as parrents in real life, calling the cops cause there 17 yer old daughters boyfriend is 19, and only 3 months older than here

Check the Content Lists in the WCIF forum for mods that enable teen romance. Some mods that do this will also enable T-YA/A romance.

There are a few mods that will allow teen dating.
The Woohooer by Nraas Industries
Extended game core which allows switching otherwise hard coded behavior at MTS.
AwesomeMod at More Awesome Than You

The Woohooer is updated for Generations, the extended game core mod is in the process of being updated, and AwesomeMod is in the testing stage.

Cuz it's a teen rated game, they want to make sure there is none of that 'underage' dating stuff going on between kids and Y/A. Statuatory. They have to keep their teen rating.

Once the teen ages up, though, the romantic interactions will return.

Actually, the easy way to deal with this is just to invite the teen love interest to the birthday party, and age them both up at the same time That's what I do. Just get two cakes... you can have anybody on the lot blow out the candles.

Would only be a problem if you want to retain the age different. But you can tweak THAT with mods