I installed freetime and I get "desperation" in my menu? Is it supposed to be like that? when i use it on adults they admire eachother.. but when i use it with a kid.,, the adult sim teaches the baby a nursery rhyme

http://i257.photobucket.com/albums/...freetimebug.jpg

and i just noticed the "appreciate" admire-give back rub option is gone

Sounds like the second one might be a hack confict to me. Have you tried removing all your downloads? I dont have freetime yet myself so im not sure whether the desparation thing is new.
P.S. we're not supposed to double post

sorry about the double post...
I removed all my hacks and the problem is fixed.. i put insim and it's still working fine.. so i guess it's a "pose" hack...


Edit: apparently the "desperation" thing comes back after a while... even without any hacks...

Edit:
I got rid of the problem... I removed 2 hacks: "talk lecture" and Exnem's food.. so if any of you is having the same problem maybe you could try and remove those hacks