Whenever I tell my sim, or one of her employees to make food, the action shows in the action box, then immediately disappears, the sim does that tiny "jump" looking action, and doesn't recognize the demand. anyone have this problem? anyone know of a conflicting download that may cause it or if it's a known bug that might be fixed soon? anyone? thanks!!!

Actions falling out of the queue are often due to hacks or hack conflicts. Remove all your hacks and see if the problem is still there.