1. nope, but there is aparantly an official DL of her on the EA exchange thingie
2. You can use the advanced options to really customise them. PharaohHound here on MTS has some wonderful examples of what can be achieved.
3. If you have he ep that give's fame points then there should be others with fame.
4. Ghosts are in every town that has a graveyard, not all tomb's are 'real', but a few will be, tho it may take a few gamee-days to spawn the ghosts.
5. that depends on how curly the edges are
6. if you can, give your sim unlucky or use the crystal-ball from EA Store. Many odd things with that item! I saw my 1st meteor today with its 'curse'