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Stop Random Flirting

by Aariancya Posted 10th Jul 2016 at 12:00 AM - Updated 27th Jul 2020 at 11:45 PM by Aariancya : Compatibility
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StopRandomFlirting 2.1: Made with game version 1.20. No update needed for patch 1.65.
StopRandomFlirting 3.0: Made with game version 1.25. No update needed for patch 1.65.
StopRandomRisqueQuestion: Made with game version 1.58. No update needed for patch 1.65
(StopRandomFlirting almost never needs to be updated. EA doesn’t tend to change this XML. StopRandomRisqueQuestion will need updates from time to time.)

Update 30th November 2019:
It seems EA allowed every sim with the self-assured trait to ask risque questions all the time. You can use StopRandomRisqueQuestion to prevent this.

Mod description:
In the original game your sims can flirt autonomously with everyone, when they are in flirty mood. This mod changes the conditions and your sims need to be in a romantic conversation or romantic relationship to flirt.

Your sims can still flirt autonomously if they fulfill any of the requirements listed here:
  • when they are in a suggestive, amorous or steamy conversation.
  • with their wife/husband, fiancee/fiance, girlfriend/boyfriend.
  • when they have a romantic relationship (pink bar) which is at least 10.

Version 3.0 additionally stops random flirting/kissing/woohoo:
  • when your sims consume sakura tea at the romantic festival. (City Living)
  • for interactions encouraged by club rules. (Get Together)

Please note:
  • Your single sims won't flirt until you tell them to.
  • This mod won't prevent the game from generating random relationships when you switch households.
  • This mod won't affect flirty/enchanting introductions. You'll need egureh's "No Autonomous Rude/Flirty/Enchanting Introductions"-mod to prevent this from happening.
  • This mod won't affect the „Vampiric Charm“.

This mod is not compatible with other mods which change autonomous usage of romantic social interactions. You can use custom romantic social interactions, but there is a chance it will not cover their autonomous usage depending on how the interaction is built. Mods to unlock interactions should be fine.
Conflicting mods I know:
Better Romance by simler90

Extract the mod from the .zip file and place the .package file in your Mods folder.

StopRandomFlirting.package edits the following XML:
Version 2.1: S4_7DF2169C_00000000_0000000000006D1E_testSet_RomanceSocialsAutonomous
Version 3.0: S4_7DF2169C_00000000_0000000000025A3F_testSet_UnflirtyTraitRomanticSocialsAutonomous

StopRandomRisqueQuestion.package edits the following XML:

Additional Credits:
XML Extractor

Download files

Filename Size Downloads Date | Your sims can flirt autonomously if they fulfill any of the listed requirements. Includes sakura tea and club rules. (patch 1.25.136 - 1.63)

Size: 1.1 KB · Downloads: 13,720 · 14th Jan 2017
1.1 KB 13,720 14th Jan 2017 | Your sims can flirt autonomously if they fulfill any of the listed requirements. (patch 1.20 - 1.63)

Size: 984 Bytes · Downloads: 3,459 · 13th Dec 2017
984 Bytes 3,459 13th Dec 2017 | Sims with the self-assured trait cannot ask risque questions without restrictions. (patch 1.58 - 1.63)

Size: 7.8 KB · Downloads: 1,739 · 30th Nov 2019
7.8 KB 1,739 30th Nov 2019

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Expansion/Stuff packs required:
Sims 4

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Type: Social No Autonomy

Tags: #faithful, #flirty, #flirt, #flirting, #romance, #romantic